By using the above word to describe the Annual General Meeting (AGM) of the Estonian House Co-operative Society Ltd. on behalf of the people who attended, I could easily stop writing here.
But obviously I won't, so for those of you who were at the AGM on the afternoon of Sunday the 17th of October and don't want to re-live the debacle, you can put that sigh of relief back in your lungs and read on.
Let me paint the picture...
It was 2pm on stunning Sunday afternoon when a healthy crowd of approximately 60 people arrived at Sydney Eesti Maja to possibly witness a bit of history in the making. Only twice in the history of Estonian House, had the Co-operative Board, been swept aside to make way for change. If early polls were anything to go by, Sunday was looking like it could be the third time.
Whilst attendance was some kind of record (after the last AGM saw no-one except the board show up), this crowd still proved under-whelming considering the email campaign/war of the candidates on the week leading up to the meeting. With proxys being the make-or-break equation in this fight, it seemed there might have been more people there in spirit than in person.
Arvo Tinni (the Chairman of the Board), Maie Barrow and Tõnu Meiusi were present at the desk just inside the hall where registration was taken and votes and proxys were given out. I had never met Arvo before though I recognised him immediately from pictures. He was a large man with one of those imposing ‘Estonian’ voices that gave me flash-backs to childhood of vana mees sitting around talking serious mens business.
Registering to vote showed at least 70 or so possible registered voters by the time I had written my name into the book (remember there were only about 60 people present...), along with the proxy for my wife. In a curious second, I wondered why it was that my wifes proxy wasn't recorded along with her name; only 'Proxy' was written in her names place. "How would anyone know who's 'Proxy' was that persons 'Proxy'", I thought. Interesting...
As the crowd that showed up was obviously unexpected by the Board, only a few chairs were put out. I and others helped put a few more chairs out for the crowd still coming in. Once done and now having two red-hot voting forms in my hot little hand, I took my place in one of the hot-seats myself.
It felt good to be sitting there seeing so many people (considering). Seeing some action! I can't help admit I was hoping to see something special. I kicked back and took it in the scene.
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| Where's Arvo? |
Before proceedings kicked off, a hand-out of the Constitution of the Estonian House Co-operative Society Ltd with an extract from 'Co-operatives Act 1992 No.18' was handed out amongst the audience by a member of the opposition (SES team). "How novel!", I thought. Then, "How boaring!"', and threw it onto the seat next to me.
The gavel banged and the crowd simmered down. The meeting got under way.
Things kicked off in the usual fashion: the reading of the minutes from the last AGM, apologies, other palaver and a minutes silence for the departed members. Once 30 seconds had passed, the ballot counters were nominated and seconded and then it began.
Taimi Nurm was the first to stand and place a question to the Board, followed closely by Aivo Takis. His questions of the day:
- under which section of Rule 9 of the Co-op’s Constitution was the board acting when they signed the lease of the commercial premises at the front of Eesti Maja to a non-Estonia-related business? (Suddenly the handout on the seat next to me became interesting. I picked it up and began reading the definition...)
- Would the Chairman be vacating his position with the Board today, as promised in his report, which was sent to members together with the notice of AGM?
As gasps of disbelief silently went off around the room, Arvo remained calm allowing a wry smile to cross his face, palms facing out to the crowd as if to say "what did you expect?”. In fact maybe he even said it...
One member of the crowd was so incensed; he got up out of his chair and left the meeting immediately.
Calmly Aivo Takis stood up and began questioning the validity of this exercise claiming it was unconstitutional and contrary to what had been printed in the lead up to the election. Arno hearing enough arrogantly slammed his gavel on the table. Aivo politely sat down.
From behind Aivo, another gentleman stood to voice his concern at the proceedings. Toomas Sarapuu, a native Estonian now residing in Australia (you remember the one...he saved a drunk Aussie from drowning in Sydney Harbour) was almost left speechless as Arno hammered down the gavel again whilst he was in mid-sentence, not even allowing him to finish his point.
With the crowd now beginning to murmur uneasily, Aivo stood again. A game opened up between him and Arvo where one would try to get the other to give their version of what Arvo meant. Even though Aivo won the battle of the discussion by twisting the question aimed at Arvo back at Arvo, it would be Arvo who would win the war of the argument as Aivos only evidence hinged on the statement, "It is time for the position to have new blood, new ideas and fresh enthusiasm to move to the next challenges" – an obvious statement of intent, but one hardly stating the obvious. Arvos wording had been clever. He had only said enough to suggest what people wanted to hear, thereby putting them off balance.
With the number of seats cut by one, any hope of the SES dominating the future Co-op Board had all but vanished in an answer. The damage was done.
With Arvo deciding there had been enough discussion, the voting got under way. People with pens and pencils began haunching over in their seats or on the seats next to them like they were having seizures to secretly draw lines through the names of (now) four candidates instead of three. Suspicious eyeballs darted around the room to see who was looking at them while they drew a line of death through candidates names. Once the deed was done and safely knowing the Eesti Stasi had failed to hone in on their selection, the votes were quickly folded in half and safely placed into a make-do ballot cast from the finest card-board box available - Coonawarra Estate.
With counting under way, people got up to stretch their legs and moved around. Others stood still; mouths open; silent; looking on in amazement and disbelief at the proceeding so far. Some grouped together in hushed discussions. One or two even popped out the front for a calming cigarette - or three.
A few younger voters over-heard certain members of the audience telling other members to leave Kadri Stamos’ name and cross out the remaining four members of the SES. Whilst dirty politics had been played down by Arvo Tinni and others, this tactic of isolating the supposed 'weak link' of the SES team would prove there were definite strategies at play by the pro-board members of the audience. Whatever the outcome would be the following thirty or so minutes while waiting for the count would prove to be extremely long.
When the gavel dropped (again) to call people back to their seats, the list of eventual winners would be read out quickly and coldly. From most votes to least (of the winning four candidates) the order read as such: Maie Barrow, Tõnu Meiusi, Terry Kass and Kadri Stamos (Madis Alvre in 5th).
In a move to counter the supposed ‘weak’ voting in of herself, Kadri Stamos stood and asked the board to accept her immediate resignation, thereby passing on her election to the Board to the next person with the most votes, Madis Alvre. While asking the Board, she was interrupted by Mr. Tinni on more than one occassion asking her to “speak up”. Upon hearing the request, the Board was as flabbergasted as the crowd now and collectively put down the request, referring the matter to be addressed at the next monthly meeting of the Board. I might suggest it prudent of Kadri to attend with representation on that night!
With general discontent still bubbling throughout the room, disorder started creeping into the meeting. People started commenting without standing and identifying themselves as comments became more personal and heated.
After several comments and interjections by numerous people in the audience, one lady in the front row, Kulliki Poole, spoke up to tell everyone to calm down. As a "dis-interested" participant of the meeting, she resembled a compassionate saviour of the Estonian community spirit while the Estonian “community” gathered around the aging carcase of Eesti Maja arguing over how the final meal should be divided. It was a welcome comment I couldn't help but "hear-hear" along with the applause of others seeking some salvation to the day.
Following this Kullikis comment, Juhan Lubek gave the last comment for the meeting: an impassioned plea (regardless of the results for the day) stating the simple fact, "If we don't make money, we can't spend money." His point (and the SES's platform in a nut-shell) being that if money isn't found through utilising the facility that is Eesti Maja, the money needed to do the up-grades to the building won’t be available and the building will start to come down around us. Although a topic of how it could be done, all were left in agreement that this is the case at hand.
And so it was: history was un-made before our eyes. The status-quo maintained. From there the meeting was all but adjourned. The people had had their say.
Although for many (including the ones who never bothered to show up and vote) the result wasn't what they had hoped for. Some were even further disillusioned by the outcome and were focused on another (supposed) two years in the wilderness. But I couldn’t help think there was a favourable outcome achieved after all: that the current Board received a long over-due shake-up and warning call - ENOUGH IS ENOUGH.
Sure there were the candidates who were re-elected for another term as well as a teary-eyed "victor" in Kadri Stamos who had basically been insulted into a position on the board. But whatever the outcome, there were no losers in my eyes; only the ones who were not elected, this time.
With an intelligent member of the SES being voted onto the Co-operative Board of Directors, the re-tension of what could be considered 4 of the status-quo, two cross-benchers in Imbi Semmelweis and Sulev Kalamäe and an annual election for two positions next year; all is not lost for the SES team.
For the community as a whole, they were also the winners even if they were not there in person to appreciate it. The community was represented on this day. Not only by a Board, but by people who had found the urgency again; the need again; the PASSION again.
As a community, as an Estonian-Australian community, we were back on the map again. THAT can only be a good thing.
To end with a few questions:
- Where are the results?
- Who is auditing the results and will they be made transparent along with who resigned proxies over to other voters? There were records kept after all were there not?
- How many proxies were given per person and have these been scrutinised re: definition 179 ‘Voting by Proxy’? (Found on the front page of the ‘Co-operative Act’ that was handed out at the beginning of the meeting)
For everyone running as candidates, I want to say I have met some wonderful people who genuinely have the best interests of Eesti Maja at heart. That is undeniable. We are all pulling in the same direction, even if the rope is a little wonky and not too straight. That's a great thing.
Through all of this process to change what we are, were we come together and how we achieve that result, neglect has set in.
Not once when arguing over who has the right to rent the front of the building, liquor licenses, disabled wheel-chair access, spending too much money did I ever hear any promises made on the future of Estonian House – the children.
No one came up with plans to get the next generation back through the door, to learn the language, to learn the dances, to participate and enjoy the culture the way they could.
Without the children backing all our grand plans up, all these grand plans become null and void from the get-go because all were arguing about is today, not tomorrow.
So what’s the point?
Ultimately, they are. Not us. It’s time to stop being so self obsessed and start thinking of them.
Some post-editing has occured from the original version of this piece with the assistance of Kadri Stamos where my detail has been vague, and hers 100%. The exception being where I claimed Mrs. Koreneff was the first to stand and comment when in fact it was Taimi Nurm.
